I love you too much for that. The women also dream to be married, hoping to not be beyond the age of child bearing before it happens. The term "homoerotic" carries with it the weight of modern classifications of love and desire that may not have existed in previous eras. That began one of the many paradigm shifts, where I would re-think my theology, beliefs, refine and redefine the message. Some time ago when Spirit told me to address this issue, He also told me that it would not just be for information or revelation, but it would be ministry.
It is also equally important that parents do not make a big deal of it and too quickly label their kids as being gay.
For sexual practices between females, see Lesbian sexual practices. Gaither; et al. Intercrural sex is another form of non-penetrative sex that can be practiced between MSM.
This does not necessarily mean a sexual encounter.