Many gay men shy away from anal sex because of the possible hygiene problems. These are tiny tears that may not bleed at all and will probably not cause any pain, but they are still gateways for HIV transmission. Not only do bottoms typically have to clean out beforehand, but we also set the tone and speed of sex and control its advancement. My vegetarian friends say that they hardly need to clean before sex — they simply use the bathroom and are good to go. Pro tip: Men's Variety Copyright Then start with anal toys, gradually working up to larger and larger sizes.
Stop if you feel uncomfortable, experience pain or bleeding.
Hold it in for a few seconds, then gently release the water into a toilet. Douching with a shower attachment gets me a more thorough clean, typically faster than with an enema. Toys open you up and get you used to the feeling of penetration at your own speed. This is part two of Bottoming
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